I recently wrote a piece for my local newspaper on parenting children with additional needs. The passage I wrote was for a coloumn called ‘Mum’s World,’ which is lead by Siani Driver who formed the 5,550+ strong ‘Worcestershire Mum’s Network,’ group on Facebook.
Parenting children with additional needs.
When I found out in April 2016 that my eldest daughter, (then aged 4,) had additional needs, I admit I was struggling, I was at a loss and felt completely hopeless. I also felt very alone. You worry about your child’s future, you worry about if you did anything to contribute in the past, you may even sometimes hear comments such as “it must be your parenting skills.”
You can hear tuts and people stare if your child is having a ‘meltdown,’ in public.
You fight for your child to be heard and for their needs to be supported, especially if your child presents differently at school to what they do at home, where they feel most comfortable and with the people they feel most comfortable with.
In March 2017 I decided to start a ‘Blog’ to share my thoughts and share experiences with parents who may be going through the same thing.
Linking up with other parents who just ‘got it’ and joining online support groups has been my salvation, I’ve been to coffee mornings for parents to chat and also ‘meet-ups’ where the children are invited along for picnics, adventure parks and boat trips.
From September 2017 I’m going to be volunteering at my local children’s centre and helping to run a local support group for the parents of children who have additional needs.
When I recently noticed some ‘sensory seeking’ behaviours in my youngest child, (now 2,) I shared my concerns with our health visitor and she’s now been referred to relevant professionals, I now understand that it is best to share concerns, the earlier the better, to ensure that the appropriate support is given.
I am always happy to answer any questions from other parents via my Facebook page:
Or via my blog email: